Your partner needs to know she is not alone. Here is how you can help…
Confirm that she is actually pregnant with a medical-grade test and ultrasound. We provide both at no cost.
Swap, “It’s your choice” with “we will figure this out together, one step at a time.”
Learn about the options available to you both from a source that does not benefit financially from the decision.
Express interest in going to her appointments with her.
Ask for her thoughts and listen to understand. What is she fearing? What excites her?
Understand that you have time, as a team, to make decisions and plans for the pregnancy.
Speak openly about your thoughts and feelings.