Finding ways to make the holidays and special events about your kids’ experience and not about the schedule is challenging, but possible. Practical advice and creative alternatives are suggested to help ease the stress for everyone. Kids don’t have a big enough voice to speak up when they are hurting. A school counselor gives us insights regarding the challenges, troubles, and concerns that children face after divorce in the context of school. What do kids think about growing up in a divided family? Here are some of the greatest concerns, challenges, and authentic responses to “What do you wish you could say to your parents?” Topics include: • coparenting • holidays • special occasions • school • single mother.