Knowing where we are and where we want to go helps us plan for the journey. Defining your coparenting relationship, understanding healthy boundaries, and knowing how each category affects your children gives you the power to impact their post-divorce experience. This tool will help you assess where you are in your coparenting relationship currently. Most importantly, this tool will help you understand how your children are impacted by your coparenting choices. Language matters. How each parent talks about the other parent’s residence can either be painful and confusing to kids or it can be neutral and even positive. Learning to use words that foster a sense of “belonging” in the hearts of the children will give them the freedom to feel at home in both places. Topics include: • coparenting • single mother • communication • perfect pals • cooperative colleagues • angry associates • fiery foes • dissolved duos.